Zhuantie - not the person communication negotiation skills a must-see

Graphic: First of all the benefits stop, you just avoid each other in his speech in the middle atmosphere will continue to adjust the speech were interrupted when the risk of interrupted and embarrassed; Second, you show yourself to each other by speaking to him or her every could hear a word very seriously and carefully, not carelessly without thinking to break into their views; Finally, the pause so you can actually hear each other's speech better. He or she can speak words penetrate more deeply into your brain, so you can more clearly understand his or her true intentions. Through the pause, you can put itself as a brilliant conversationalist. Graphic: Ask questions to become a good conversationalist is to propose another question to clarify the facts. Do not think that he has never fully understood what the caller said, or trying to say. Instead, you have a question, asking each other to express the true meaning is. This is what I have learned to control the conversation one of the most powerful of the problem, the other is almost impossible not to answer this question. When you ask each other to express a real sense of what, when, the other side will not make a very broad answer perfunctory style, you can then make some other open-ended questions, which would allow for the continuation of the conversation.
illustration: to explain the meaning of the speaker to become good conversationalist The third method is to use your own words explain the meaning of the expression of the speaker to ask. Nod and smile at you, you can say, let me see if I understand what you mean, you are saying is ... ...
illustration: to show their focus on the meaning of the speaker by relaying, you order a Ways have been very careful to show his speech to listen to each other and try to understand each other's thoughts or feelings. More wonderful thing is that when you conduct an effective listening, other people will start to notice your charm, they will begin to want to focus on around you, in your presence they will feel relaxed and happy occasions .
illustration: to listen to listen to was able to become a confidence-building aspects of development of the art and skills of talking to a such a powerful tool, because listening to build trust. The more you listened carefully to other people talk, the more people will trust you and trust you. Listening can also develop self-esteem. When you listen carefully when talking to other people, but also his or her self-esteem will naturally be increased.